When you’re connected to your purpose, life feels like a wonderful gift.
It allows you to be resilient, move through every day with a sense of inner wisdom, optimism, and contentment, and see the beauty in the small things.
But when you don’t know your purpose, life can feel, well, empty – full of hardship and a nagging feeling that something is missing.
If you’ve felt this way before, you’re not alone. Many of my clients – including high-performing entrepreneurs and accomplished professionals with multiple degrees – have deeply questioned the meaning of their lives.
What I’ve learned is that this feeling of discontentment isn’t something to fear. It’s actually an invitation to uncover your badass purpose and step into the best version of you!
Studies have discovered that people with a sense of purpose are happier, more resilient, and filled with hope. On top of that, they tend to live longer and often enjoy higher incomes. Clearly, there’s a lot to gain by discovering your purpose.
Okay, Lyn, I hear you say, having a sense of purpose sounds great – but how do I find it?
By creating your personal purpose statement.
Come, let me show you how.
Your personal purpose statement is the driving force behind your actions. It’s a sentence that encapsulates the language of your soul and helps you live your life as your authentic self.
Uncovering this statement is like embarking on a personal adventure of discovery, and it deserves your time and effort.
Everyone’s personal purpose statement is going to sound different, and it might take people different lengths of time to truly refine it.
Look at me, for example; I didn’t find my personal purpose statement until my thirties. Using one of the exercises I’ll show you below, I developed this draft for my life’s purpose: “I am an agent for goodness.”
Later, in my fifties, I took another assessment, and one line in the report perfectly captured the combination of my top strengths: “I am here to enliven and enlarge your vision of who you are and what you can achieve with who you are.”
I check in with this purpose statement often and use it to guide my day-to-day decisions and actions – who I should spend my time with, or what course of action I should take for a specific business decision.
Now that we know what a personal purpose statement is, let me show you a number of exercises to help you discover yours.
A personal mission statement sounds like a big deal, but it really doesn’t need to be overly extravagant or embellished.
When crafting your personal purpose statement, draw from your intentions and interests, think about your dreams, and channel what sparks your happiness.
Before starting, it’s worth noting that your purpose statement can change several times throughout your life.
So don’t put too much pressure on yourself to get it perfect the first time – it’s meant to be a joyful task of compassionate self-exploration rather than a competition to hit the mark precisely!
With that said, here are three different exercises you can use to uncover your personal mission statement.
Look back at any past assessments you’ve taken such as the Myers-Briggs test, DISC assessment, or Enneagram test. See if any sentences jump out at you as potential purpose statements. Jot them down on a pad of paper.
Reflect on your childhood and think about activities that made you lose track of time and exhilarate you. Add those items to the notes you’ve already taken.
Look for patterns among the items you’ve listed. Do any of them overlap and represent an aspect of your identity that you’d like to embrace as part of your purpose?
Take a small event or a specific section of your life and attach a purpose to it. This could be a recent vacation, a creative project, or time you spent with friends.
Identify your overall intention for that event.
Think about the parts of that event that interest you the most.
Combine your thoughts into a mission statement. Here are a few examples to inspire you:
Here’s a more soul-busting way to uncover your purpose. It consists of asking yourself some pretty deep questions and embarking on a quest to formulate your life purpose statement.
Ask yourself the following questions:
Once you have your answers, play around with them and try to write at least three different purpose statements.
With these simple exercises, I want you to be gentle with yourself. Stay curious, lean into your creativity, and explore your inner world with courage and kindness.
To help inspire you to come up with your own, here are some examples of personal mission statements:
Uncovering your purpose can feel daunting, but it’s already within you, waiting to be discovered.
In my new book, I give you all the tools you need to discover your purpose, boost your confidence, and find lasting fulfillment.
Get your copy today and start reaching for the purpose-filled, badass life of your dreams!